There’s a concept in evolutionary biology that applies quite well to the course of your life, and that is the notion of a bottleneck. The concept is simple:
As the graph shows, a population bottleneck is a disaster for a species. It could lead to the extinction of the entire race. It could forever cripple the species, reducing genetic diversity and dislodging them from their ecological niche.
Or, it could transform the species into something brilliant.
A population bottleneck is a crisis. Regardless of the cause (and the cause can be anything from disease to climate change to a new predator), something has disrupted the normal function of the species. The old rules no longer apply. Variations that were once neutral or even slightly negative can emerge triumphant. Crucially, the actions of each individual organism now have great impact on the destiny of the species as a whole.
A bottleneck might wipe out species, or it might break them. Then again, it might trigger drastic changes that would otherwise have never needed to take place. It is even believed that this happened to us in our evolutionary history, pushing our intelligence into full-blown sentience.
We all have moments like that in our personal histories. Everything was normal, then out of nowhere, catastrophe. Maybe the disaster was sudden. Maybe it was persistent, lasting months or even years. Maybe it broke you, or maybe it transformed you into something better. One thing’s for certain – no one comes through a bottleneck unchanged.
I can think of two examples in my life that I’d describe as drastic, transformational catastrophes. The first was when my kindergarten teacher bullied me. Honestly, I don’t remember the specific incident, but it wouldn’t have been at all out of character for her. You all know the type – the teacher that hates kids. Anyway, I was quite an outgoing, adventurous child. Now I’m an introverted weirdo who blogs using inappropriate analogies from population genetics. I have every reason to believe that this incident was the trigger. Whether you believe that or not, it doesn’t matter – the point is, you have to admit that it could be true. That’s the sort of event in a child’s life that can create a bottleneck.
The second example follows on from the first. During my teen years I was awkward and introverted. Not much has changed in that regard. But during those long, lonely years, the isolation forced me to develop a sense of creativity. Years later, this creativity lead to an exploration of sketching, painting and, yes, writing. Now I’m an introverted weirdo who blogs using inappropriate analogies from population genetics.
Pressure creates diamonds. Disasters inspire change. These aren’t always good things, but the change is always there. Identifying the moments that defined you is critical to proper self-awareness.
The only question that remains is, are bottlenecks more powerful than lollypops?